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Sexy Time ~ Sex is no big deal but TMI Tuesday is

Sexy Time on TMI Tuesday 18th July 2017

Sexy Time
Sexy Time

For you, what is sexy time?

Sexy time is anytime that either my man or I are feeling horny and have a bit of space to act upon these desires.

If your best friend asked, “Do you think I’m sexy?” What would you say?

Absolutely sexy, with a camp twist thrown in – my best friend is my man and I find effeminate men outrageously sexy as they ooze confidence and individual style. I wrote about it here.

If your Mum or Dad asked, “How’s your love life?” Would you answer? What would you tell them?

Well with both parents dead, not uncommon once you are in your 40’s, that one is difficult to answer. If my children, both young adults, asked then I would say,

“great , now don’t be thinking I want to know the details of your sex lives!”

I find that young people seem very eager to give you far Too Much Information on this topic. Yes I know I write a sex blog and this post is a TMI post, but my readers are not related to me.

A young 8-year-old asks you, “What is the birds and the bees?” How do you reply?

Well firstly I would give them a grammar lesson and say the sentence should be

what are

as you are talking about more than one thing.

Then I would inform them that there are many species of birds all of which have feathers, wings and a beak. Most birds fly. Bees are good for the environment. But hey kid, stop bothering me, I’ve got sex to be getting on with!

What would you do if your lover’s turn on is your turn off?

Difficult one as I really like to please my lover and I would want to be involved in what turns him on – meaning I wouldn’t want him going anywhere else for it. So I expect I would accommodate it but hopefully not need to on a regular basis.

Bonus: What does it mean to be a man?

Ah, I have already written about this. I like real alpha males. Not the ones that the media and feminists depict. Real alpha males display certain traits that are irresistible such as:

  • His whole demeanour oozes confidence and optimism; the way he walks, talks, loves and lives!

  • He continually seeks to improve his brain and understanding of the world around him.

  • He is very passionate in life, knows what he loves to do and follows his dreams.

  • An Alpha male is a natural leader. He can be relied upon to provide direction when needed, as he has a natural ability to solve problems.

  • He understands that growth will happen when you step out of your comfort zone and he will readily do this. Also he will also encourage his woman to do the same. Giving her the space she requires and accepting her without judgement.

Please read the rest of my article.

sexy times


Significant Other – TMI Tuesday – Valentines Day 2017

Significant Other

Are you “in love” with your significant other or are you simply compatible.
Scientist claim that being “in love” only last within the first six months of a relationship.

Scientists can claim what they want, and they often simply fabricate their findings to agree with a pre-determined hypothesis. I do understand that you simply would not achieve much at all if you were “in love” the whole time. Being “in love”, in my opinion, creates a type of madness in you. That said I think that putting a constraint of 6 months on it is short sighted. I was “in love” almost constantly with my significant other for about 2 years.- this was a long time, such a duration had not happened to me before. As that subsided I found thankfully that I also loved and cared about him deeply. It is very sad when you cease to be “in love” with a person and also find that concept was all there was to your relationship – you do not have any other kind of affectionate feelings towards them.

That being said I vacillate between being in and out of love with my man on a weekly basis. I think this is normal and healthy. But whether I am “in love” or not with him at a particular time he still remains my man, who comes from a similar place as I do. Continue reading Significant Other – TMI Tuesday – Valentines Day 2017