My man is an author, a rider, a musician. He has worn the hat of a journalist, a social worker and a builder. He has an amazing brain; has fabulous hands; has a very neat, sexy arse; he also has Lyme Disease. (LD) Continue reading Living with Chronic Lyme Disease
Ten little letters ~ E R O T I C O N U K
E is for
Eroticon UK and the Eroticon team who granted me a free ticket. Continue reading EROTICON UK Ten Things
Smut Marathon Competition ~ Early Days & SoSS
The smut marathon competition is meant to be a challenging writing experience and I certainly feel, on my part, it has been just that – after only two rounds. Continue reading Smut Marathon Competition Early Days ~ SoSS
Warning – This post tells the true story of a family where over time incest was an ongoing part of life. Do not read if you have personal issues regarding this topic.
Christmas is a tricky time of year for different reasons. Past memories can trigger a good or bad emotional reaction. Or you may not like the seasonal weather. Personally, I must admit to being somewhat sad. Continue reading Here it is Merry Christmas or are you Sad?
I am shadow banned again. Its been nearly a week this time – yawn. Shadow banning on Twitter is becoming common place. I am using it as the theme to SoSS for the second time, trying to fill in some of the blanks. Continue reading Shadow Banning Stinks, SoSS Smells Sweet
After a whole week I have finally been let out from the under the shadow.
Twitter decided I was worthy once again, and removed my Shadow Ban.
I have learned a lot since I put out last weeks #SoSS post: Continue reading Out from under the shadow and ready for SoSS
Censorship is the suppression of speech, public communication, or other information, on the basis that such material is considered objectionable, harmful, sensitive, politically incorrect or “inconvenient” as determined by government authorities. Continue reading Censorship by default ~ Share our shit Saturday ~ SoSS
Sugar ~ Food for Thought on Wicked Wednesday #279
WARNING – no age restriction on this food for thought article
Armed as I am with a sports nutrition diploma, when I saw the prompt for this week, I knew I had to take the word literally.
Sugar – How Wicked is it?
Polyamorous relationships, good for the whole family?
Polyamorous relationships appear to be rising in popularity – they are trending and trendy. The question is, can this lifestyle last a lifetime? Continue reading Polyamorous Relationships ~ A moment in time or a lifetime?
Effeminate guys were all around in the 1970’s.
From a very young age I can remember TV shows were rife with effeminate men. The spectacle of Marc Bolan gyrating around the stage in pink silk trousers that showed the form of his penis was a familiar image on children’s television. This vision was glamorous and (apart from the contours of his cock) non-threatening. I grew up learning to love the look of such men- the way they moved and personified confidence; almost as if they were defying traditional sexual boundaries, but doing it in an incredibly sexy way.
Continue reading Effeminate Men Rocked the World in the 70’s
Alpha male –
If you have been reading my posts you are now aware of how I want my man to behave in the bedroom – or in our case, out of the bedroom – but how would I like him to behave in everyday life? Well, I need someone who won’t tolerate any nonsense from me. As a rule I try to get away with anything possible and have what I fondly describe as “princess syndrome.” Put simply this means I would rather have someone else do the mundane things on a day to day basis, even help me off with my boots and fluff around making sure all is good in my world. Continue reading Alpha Male – misunderstood and misrepresented
Gender Dysphoria When I was ten I began to read widely. Anything to take me away from everyday life, even if only into my head. I devoured books that offered a reality unlike my own. The Tarzan series by Edgar Rice Burroughs was a favourite. I was taken with the backdrop and the characters. I fell in love with the books but I did not fall in love with Tarzan. No, I wanted to be Tarzan. Jane was OK but that sissy life was not for me! I had a ripe imagination and began to play-act being just like him in the woods with whatever friends I could persuade to join me. Continue reading Gender Dysphoria – For the Love of Our Children
Have you ever been in a situation where you find yourself fighting hard to get a relationship off the ground? Is it because of the lack of emotional compatibility?
Emotional Compatibility Matters
Stimulation is so important within a relationship
Ok, have you ever been in a situation where you find yourself fighting hard to get a relationship off the ground? You are sure it has the makings of a meaningful partnership so you invest time, encouragement and most of all love in the person concerned. Your mind is set and any doubts that flutter past are waved away because you are convinced you are doing the right thing with the right person. And maybe for a short while you are, but what happens next confuses you because it is unexpected, it creeps up, slaps you in the face.
As even though in your heart you feel you love this man, you also know he is very lucky to have you loving him, because you believe in yourself and your capabilities. So, after a flying start – where affection and time are lavished on you – an empty vacuum opens up, you become bewildered as to why this could possibly happen. He still smiles at you in that way, wants to make love to you every night and checks your phone! Continue reading Emotional Compatibility Matters in a Long Term Relationship