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Boobday action – November 25th 2016

Boobs Matter
Boobs Matter

Boobday

Boobday 25th November 2016

Looking

Looking at pictures of boobs is a particular pleasure of mine. I don’t mind what size or shape but I must confess I do adore freckled breasts. I also particularly like breasts in various stages of undress – when you can see the outline of the boob, depicting its shape and the curve of the nipple. Breasts are indeed a wonderful creation.

Function

I also enjoy the rationale behind breasts. They are multi-functional. Naturally they are involved in child rearing but beyond that they exude comfort. The warmth and softness they offer. Their yielding nature. Of course, they are sexy too. They look sexy. When a womans breasts are touched in a certain way she feels sexy, and just having them makes me feel sexy! Continue reading Boobday action – November 25th 2016

Virgin at 41 update – Robs story continues…

Virgin at 41 update, from Robs diary entries. Robs true story continues here. I know he would appreciate any comments or advice.

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If you want to read the first post about him click here.

Virgin at 41 update

Dear diary,

That elusive shag has been right on my doorstep, under my nose for a good few months now. Right here in my village!

She latched onto me, whilst waiting for a Chinese a few months ago, couldn’t have been more blatant. I had just moved to the area, and I kinda wasn’t interested/ready, so grouchily I just batted her way.

I see her about now and again, sometimes blank her, sometimes stop and have awkward conversation, my body language closed, but her body language is very open, her eyes light up when she sees me. If I gave her even a modicum of encouragement she would be all over me like a cheap suit. Often I am driving down the road and see her out walking. I scotch down, head below the steering wheel like a headless driver, hoping she won’t see me.

Anyway, I was in my local shop tonight, and up she popped, I was a little less gruff, less awkward and she started talking. I wasn’t really listening but I offered her a lift to where ever she was going. She didn’t hesitate, nodding her head approvingly as loud, grungy, rock music roared from the stereo; although she was slightly unnerved by my aggressive driving. I dropped her off and she gave me her number straight off… guess it’s up to me now. Continue reading Virgin at 41 update – Robs story continues

Van Morrison – It’s All Right – Sex Matters

Van-the-Man

Sept 2016

Van Morrison has a way of singing that injects passion into your soul.  His song “It’s All Right” was one of the things that inspired me to put together this site. The song is real, the way he sings it is real. It makes me feel real

Van Morrison – It Matters to him

Van Morrison

The Lyrics

“It’s All Right”

If it matters how you do it,
And how you do it it’s your thing.
If it matters which way you go,
That’s your way to go.
And if you get it like that,
That’s the way you get it,
‘Cause you get it like that
When you want to be that way,
When you wanna be that way,
That’s the way you wanna be, see.
 
[Chorus:]
Hey! It’s all right.
Hey!
Yeah, its all right.
 
 
Now that you try to do to me
Out there a-walkin’ doesn’t matter, baby
Ain’t no question, no suggestion
Nothin’ in my mind that can’t be
Shut out when I want it to be
Nothin’ in yours that can’t be kept in
When you open it up and lose it
And nothin’ you can’t let out
If it’s got to be let out, just let it out
And don’t worry which way it goes.
 
[Chorus]
 
 
Now how can I tell you that I love you
How can I say so many words and so many syllables
In such a short space of time as this
Just turn it on and soak it in
And let it run off the walls
And let it down, keep it, and don’t lose it
Or confuse it
It’s just right there layin’ open
Completely open for everybody to see
Yeah, you got it.
 
[Chorus]

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Virgin at 41 – can YOU imagine what it must feel like?

  WHAT MUST IT FEEL LIKE TO FIND YOURSELF A VIRGIN AT 41 YEARS OLD?

Being a virgin at 41 hurts
Being a virgin at 41 hurts

I am always very flattered when I receive mail after someone has read one of my posts. A few weeks ago Rob wrote very candidly to me about his past. With his consent I am now sharing his message with all of you.

Does sex matter? Reckon it does.

I am Rob, a 41-year-old guy and a VIRGIN – yes that’s right still a virgin at 41. There I said it took a little bit, (took some cajones though and mine are like beach balls at the moment).

It’s incredibly frustrating, lonely, crushing – the adjectives are truly endless. I have never been kissed or, touched. Certainly not shagged, how the fuck can you work with that?

This site drew me like a beacon, not because of what you do or are into, more about the CONTEXT, frank discussion without fear of embarrassment.

Imagine having your sexual desires, needs repressed, not explored for 25 + years?

Being a virgin at 41 is fucking painful indeed.

How and why I got to this point in my life is not totally clear but here’s my story. Continue reading Virgin at 41 – can YOU imagine what it must feel like?

No Charge – Poem for the ex who puts a cost on love

No Charge

I found myself in a relationship where I had given everything that was on my inside and it felt like little was being returned.  Read about it. So I moved on with an open mind but it soon became apparent that he was so un-evolved that he  could not see the bigger picture. Everything we shared, he wanted to keep. He wanted me to leave with nothing. This puzzled me as my view on love is that it should be a giving and understanding thing. Just because it did not work out should not mean his morals should slip. Love had existed between us once so why be selfish and immoral after?

Love. Was it real to him?

If the shoe had been on the other foot I would understand that, no matter how much it hurt,  if he needed to leave me to be happy then that is what must happen. He failed to recognise this,  so did he ever really love me?

No Charge
No Charge
No Charge – Poem for un-evolved ex.

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