Don’t be afraid to ask. After all it is far more frightening to be in a relationship that is just not stimulating, than to ask a question that momentarily may make you blush.
The story tells the tale of when I first came to terms with the fact pain, and certain kinks, gave me pleasure. It was a defining moment for me.
My instructions were to be naked except for a fur coat, heels and ruby red lipstick. Nothing else. I can’t tell you how wonderfully dirty I felt.