Being in a relationship should be an enjoyable part of life. Not always easy but hopefully rewarding. The more you put in the more you get out. Well, that should stand true but as people are human with individual agendas and morals we may sometimes be disappointed.
Communication is key…
Talk about your fantasies
How do I tell my partner about my fantasies? I am sure this question has passed across every adult’s mind at some time in a relationship. It is extremely important to be able to express yourself sexually and fulfill your fantasies with your partner, but you can’t just expect them to know what you yearn for unless you’ve discussed it. Communication is paramount in any sexual relationship but particularly so when “kinkier” events are played out. Continue reading Talking About Fantasies & Pushing Boundaries
Since I became peri-menopausal I have had sleep related problems that can only be described as interrupted slumber.
We all like to indulge ourselves. On a now and then basis it should be part of a person’s self care and certainly not something to be sorry for. But I would think types of indulgence are purely personal. After all what is one man’s meat may be another man’s poison.
Personally I think it is important to share your fantasies with your lover. In my experience it brings you closer.
I met Oz online when he left a rather long comment on this site. It went to moderation.