How do I tell my partner about my fantasies? I am sure this question has passed across every adult’s mind at some time in a relationship. It is extremely important to be able to express yourself sexually and fulfill your fantasies with your partner, but you can’t just expect them to know what you yearn for unless you’ve discussed it. Communication is paramount in any sexual relationship but particularly so when “kinkier” events are played out. Continue reading Talking About Fantasies & Pushing Boundaries→
Last week on Sinful Sunday I mentioned how my man waited three years for me. Then a time came when my commitments had been fulfilled but I actually found I was motionless. I could not seem to see any way to remove myself from my domestic situation. I convinced myself that I was trapped.
My sexual needs are somewhat deviant but I have never been involved in a threesome or group sexual activity. I suppose I have been a serial monogamist – somebody who jumps from one long-term monogamous relationship to another, usually making the break when sex within the pairing has become stale or boring. Towards the end of a lengthy relationship I would invariably become so horny I would cheat on my partner. The nearest I came to having sex with more than one person was sleeping with two men on the same day but at a different time – and unbeknown to each other.