This may be where some people who have no idea about BDSM practices get confused. If you don’t have the urge to give pain or to feel pain, then consent would be a difficult concept to understand.
Tag: pain
Enjoying the Pain: Wax and Wane
Wax and Wane can also give meaning to the feeling achieved when hot wax first hits your skin. It has a strength which diminishes as it cools.
Perverse? ~ Not me…
If something has been done repeatedly over the centuries surely it will eventually be viewed with the N word – and seen as normal in general? Not Perverse.
Hand Spanking ~ Bitter Sweet Joy
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Spanking my Eczema into Submission
I just know that spanking not only helps me mentally, but it has physical benefits for me too. So you could say my kink is spanking my eczema into submission…
Three Times a Woman ~ Pleasure & Pain
The story tells the tale of when I first came to terms with the fact pain, and certain kinks, gave me pleasure. It was a defining moment for me.








