Being in a relationship should be an enjoyable part of life. Not always easy but hopefully rewarding. The more you put in the more you get out. Well, that should stand true but as people are human with individual agendas and morals we may sometimes be disappointed.
A relationship should have it’s foundation fixed on firm ground. That sounds sensible to me. But what should the foundation consist of? Well, surely this will be unique for every partnership.Continue reading Stimulating Foundations ~ Keeping us alive
This guest post makes a lot of sense to me. It is important to communicate with your partner and have fun together sexually…. May More
How the Use of Sex Toys Can Boost Your Relationship
Sex toys are still a slightly taboo subject, however, as some studies suggest, this is starting to change – especially since they are not exclusive to single people; many couples are using them to make their sex life more exciting. Adult toys can help spice things up a little, especially for couples in a long-term relationship. After all, how long can you enjoy the same positions over and over again, right?
Did you know that many women can’t experience an orgasm with only vaginal penetration? They must help themselves with the stimulation of the clitoris. They can do it by themself or ask their partner for help. The latter improves communication, as they need to express the desire to do so to their partner. It is actually proven that couples who are using sex toys have fewer problems talking about what they need in bed or how they like stuff to be done. Twenty-nine percent of them have no problem communicating what to do. As for those who don’t use them – only 17% admit to being able to talk openly about their needs.
After doing the same thing over and over again, people tend to get bored. Sex, although pleasurable, is no exception. The mundane routine in bed can be a killer for long relationships. Despite loving your partner, you may feel as if something is missing. Using toys together and trying new things might help with that. Maybe mutual masturbation? You can find toys suited for both of your needs. Talk about your kinks and fantasies, and you are bound to find something that mutually turns you on.
Have you ever felt like you have to do better, despite already being so exhausted? Don’t worry! It happens to all of us! But sometimes, it may cause bad feelings, especially for your partner who still wants more. With the use of toys, you can make the evening fun and pleasurable, even if you have troubles with performing longer.
Sex toys, like everything in life, must be chosen carefully. Before you decide which ones to buy, try reading about different materials they are made from, determine what will suit you the best, and what shape and size you want to start with. For more information about safe sex toys, you can check out the infographic prepared by Adult Toy Shop.
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Face slapping appears to be a controversial subject even within the kink world. Would you consider it within your relationship? Ideally the topic should be discussed before it happens and the slapper must also be experienced in how to slap without causing injury.
As I start this post I still do not really know exactly what I’m going to write for the F4T prompt The Road Not Taken.
I was out with an old friend recently and we were chatting about someone we know who seems to have so many faces depending on who she is socializing with.