There’s a lot to be said for scheduling sex nights. My man and I call them date nights as the end result does not have to be intercourse. The aim is to enjoy the type of interaction we don’t always have time for – exploring our kinks. But at first we didn’t realise how much care should be taken before and after the sexy action.
I like being spanked. I suppose that is my main kink. Although my man likes to tie me up too. Not to mention flog me with his belt or one of our handmade whips. That is his kink. Recently I discovered a welcome side effect from a good spanking /flogging.
First let’s look at Kink Vs Fetish.