During our sexual play hand spanking in general is very much part of our relationship. It makes me feel horny most of the time but occasionally a good spanking helps me to focus on reality.
A few minutes ago my man blindfolded me and tied my hands behind my back. Not being sure what is in front or wanting to trip and hurt myself, I just stand, blinded by the dark.
I just know that spanking not only helps me mentally, but it has physical benefits for me too. So you could say my kink is spanking my eczema into submission…
Often I would try and avoid receiving oral sex altogether. Letting them know that I preferred fingers or cock.
Don’t be afraid to ask. After all it is far more frightening to be in a relationship that is just not stimulating, than to ask a question that momentarily may make you blush.
Often the young are not aware of their beauty. But as I got slightly older I did recognise I was physically at my peak and enjoyed the attention my body generated.