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Couples That Play Together, Stay Together ~ Guest Post

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This guest post makes a lot of sense to me. It is important to communicate with your partner and have fun together sexually…. May More

How the Use of Sex Toys Can Boost Your Relationship

Sex toys are still a slightly taboo subject, however, as some studies suggest, this is starting to change – especially since they are not exclusive to single people; many couples are using them to make their sex life more exciting. Adult toys can help spice things up a little, especially for couples in a long-term relationship. After all, how long can you enjoy the same positions over and over again, right?

Orgasms Are Cool

Did you know that many women can’t experience an orgasm with only vaginal penetration? They must help themselves with the stimulation of the clitoris. They can do it by themself or ask their partner for help. The latter improves communication, as they need to express the desire to do so to their partner. It is actually proven that couples who are using sex toys have fewer problems talking about what they need in bed or how they like stuff to be done. Twenty-nine percent of them have no problem communicating what to do. As for those who don’t use them – only 17% admit to being able to talk openly about their needs.

More Excitement Together

After doing the same thing over and over again, people tend to get bored. Sex, although pleasurable, is no exception. The mundane routine in bed can be a killer for long relationships. Despite loving your partner, you may feel as if something is missing. Using toys together and trying new things might help with that. Maybe mutual masturbation? You can find toys suited for both of your needs. Talk about your kinks and fantasies, and you are bound to find something that mutually turns you on.

Less Pressure

Have you ever felt like you have to do better, despite already being so exhausted? Don’t worry! It happens to all of us! But sometimes, it may cause bad feelings, especially for your partner who still wants more. With the use of toys, you can make the evening fun and pleasurable, even if you have troubles with performing longer.

Sex toys, like everything in life, must be chosen carefully. Before you decide which ones to buy, try reading about different materials they are made from, determine what will suit you the best, and what shape and size you want to start with. For more information about safe sex toys, you can check out the infographic prepared by Adult Toy Shop.

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7 thoughts on “Couples That Play Together, Stay Together ~ Guest Post”

  1. This is a really interesting post May. I admit to having some toxic toys of my own. They are PVC and when I purchased them I didn’t know about the risks. I’ve never had any issues, but would rather not have them in future. The ones I’ve kept I just love the smell, an important part of play for me, so I keep them just for that!

  2. Sex toys made O’s possible for her. For years, it was the only way for her. I guess the toys showed her how to orgasm and now we rarely need them. She trusted me enough to introduce toys at the time and it made all the difference in the world. I highly recommend exploring toys for anyone considering it. Now they are simply used for fun. We are having lots of fun…

    1. Thank you so much for this comment – I never thought we would do the toy thing, but we do and love it – not all the time but now and then it adds fun – which is great. Sex and fun what could be better? x

  3. Very educational! Many years ago, I used to sell toys at parties for couples and would have loved a handout of this info. Thanks for sharing 🙂

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