Content Notice ~ Kinky Sex is discussed in this post.
I am certainly curious about edge play. What actually is it? Will it take me to the edge of heaven?
Now that was a curious thing to say as on the same day my man asked me a similar question regarding our date night schedule. You see our sexual play has been reasonably consistent but making time for actual full on date nights has lapsed a little – mainly down to me. With one thing and another 2019 was quite a stressful year. He wanted to know if I still enjoyed the kinky stuff my blog is known for.
Their questions got me thinking and I came to the conclusion that I actually don’t know how kinky I am. But I am aware of what I like and what I don’t like in regards to sexy play in a relaxed atmosphere. However, I am unsure if any of it is edge play but perhaps you the reader can tell me.
I like to dress sexily, be told to stand across the room while he stares at me and asks various questions. Maybe also ordering me to take off items of clothing.
Blindfolds really add some spark to a date night. However I get a little scared when wearing them as I am very visually aware. But I really appreciate the way I need to use my sense of smell on such occasions and how it disorientates me making me focus more.
I love to be hand spanked mostly. The crisp sharp sound and feel of a palm on buttock is just delicious. But I also enjoy being whipped and belted. My man makes his own whips and has been known to whittle a twig from a tree to use on me. I would really like to have some play with the cane and some household items as well.
Being ordered to kneel and getting face fucked will make me wet. Getting used for his pleasure, without regard for me, makes me hot.
Wax play is also something I have enjoyed in the past. The heat of dripping wax and the wonderful feeling as it solidifies on skin is something I find really exciting. I think I would enjoy temperature play in general.
Treat me mean
Another thing I get off on is humiliating dirty talk. Being told I am a dirty bitch who has all her holes filled, works for me
I also like to be hidden under a desk or table and told to suck cock while my man gets on with computer work or watches his choice of porn.
There are two other things I think I like but we’ve not involved them very often in our sessions. Firstly, being pushed around a little. You know put in my place. And second, throat play. Where slight pressure is exerted during sex. This really increases the adrenaline.
If we include some of the above into a sexy session we will usually finish the fun by one or both of us climaxing.
No thank you
Then there are things I don’t like or would not want to try.
Needles or knives don’t interest me.
Fantasies I have include watching my man being pleasured by someone else and me being fucked by two strange men. But I want these in my head not in my bed!
Intelligence tops the lot
Trust is extremely important. So any risky play will cease to be fun if you are not doing it with the right person. And for me the greatest turn on of all – if you want to take me to the edge of heaven –is intelligence. My man has this in spades.