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Love Emotion Trust – TMI Tuesday Confessional

Love Emotion Trust on TMI Tuesday

1.What would you do to leave a great impression with a person on your first date?

It is so long since I had a first date – When I was younger it wasn’t so much wanting to leave a good impression but rather to get them under my spell if I liked them enough. I would dress to impress, but tailor that to what I anticipated they would want to see me wear. Apart from that I employed the transparent technique, being open and honest. Can be rare so it usually seemed to work.

2.Do you usually follow your heart or your head?

I am not a romantic but always follow my heart or gut instinct. As far as my brain is concerned love over comes all – can’t say it’s always been the right thing to do. In hindsight, I do wish I had occasionally engaged my head in my relationship decisions.

3.If your significant other told you to jump off a tall cliff and told you that you’ll land safely because there’s a net you can’t see yet, would you blindly trust your s.o. and jump?

I am also taking this as a metaphorical question. I’m not great on the old trust issue. I am slowly learning to trust my man but it’s been a long slow process for me. I am still at that stage where I wouldn’t be able to do as he requested without asking many questions first. Unless it involved a sexual issue, in which case I would just submit!

4.How do you support your significant other?

I always make sure he has a release for his sexual desires. I listen to his many opinions and I love his many faces.

5.What types of things or gestures/acts make you feel loved?

A touch, a look. Telling me something about yourself I didn’t know. Letting me know on a regular basis why you think I am special.

6.What types of things or gestures/acts make you feel respected?

Someone giving their time to me and perhaps listening to what I am saying. Really listening.  You can’t buy time…

7.Can you have emotional intimacy without physical intimacy? Explain.

Yes, definitely. In fact I often separate the two, I enjoy the physical side of sex far more when emotional intimacy is removed. Sex for sex sake. It applies the other way round too – I need emotional intimacy and delight in it without any physical intimacy. Talking, listening, sharing intimate thoughts, ideas, memories and dreams. No need to touch.

Bonus: For Love Emotion Trust.

In 2016, what was your most conflicted emotional moment?

Having a physical accident whilst spending time at my dream vacation destination with my man. As a result, the joy of the sights and sounds of our holiday were marred by my sudden impairment.

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4 thoughts on “Love Emotion Trust – TMI Tuesday Confessional”

  1. “I always make sure he has a release for his sexual desires”

    Thankyou! I’m not sure if most women understand that – my wife certainly doesn’t.
    If, as a couple, you used to enjoy playing a lot of tennis together when you first met then you can’t (or shouldn’t, in my opinion) just decide later you don’t want to play tennis anymore. And if there’s a reason you can’t play tennis anymore then there are still other options. You could watch him play tennis on his own, let him play tennis with someone else, or maybe just watch the tennis on ESPN together.

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