Check out any porn site’s videos these days and you will find a whole section of films featuring the guy coming on their partner’s face – known as facials. But the popularity of this kind of ejaculation is a relatively recent phenomenon.
History of Facials
In the porn hay-day of the 1970s, when lots of cash was spent on the movies, there were long, drawn-out scenes where the common practice was the guy coming inside the woman. (Known as a ‘cream pie’ – and certainly not the most popular niche of porn these days). It was also fashionable, in those old films, for him to ejaculate on her stomach or back, depending on which way round they were fucking. But of course at the moment of release, the camera would be on his spurt and not on the woman’s face, so the viewer was not privy to her reaction.
It was somewhere in the ’80s that facials became more popular. This may have had something to do with the AIDS era and intercourse being portrayed as dangerous rather than something to be enjoyed. Then later, when filming the event for the fast-growing online porn industry of the millennium, the audience got to see the moment of ejaculation and facial expression.
One of my first sexual partners had this particular exploit on his sex wish list. I was happy to oblige. As the years went by not many other guys made the same request. I viewed it as something you would accommodate every now and then, rather than being a regular feature. That was until I found my man.
Jizz on my Face
He likes to come on my face. He may whip or spank me first, and will invariably go down on me. But so often all this will end when he spurts his load over my mouth, and face.
There are various assumptions as to why men like to do this. Role-play humiliation or degradation, for example. And I do like a bit of sexual humiliation and agree this might be a factor, although ‘degradation’ does sound a little harsh. Perhaps it is simply a visual thing. There’s her pretty, peachy skin being covered in something considered dirty, that only happens at a moment of absolute enjoyment for him. Not only that, she is letting him do this to her. That alone is very sexy.
So moving away from the whys and wherefores and onto the how-tos.
Giving Pleasure
The reason I am happy to give my man a blow job is because he gets so much enjoyment from it and I get turned on when he is turned on. From experience with his cock in my mouth, I learned different ways of pleasing him. Things like angling his cock down when licking and where to press as he is coming so it feels more intense for him. I can often tell when the moment of ejaculation arrives and sometimes pull back a little so his cum doesn’t spurt down my throat or on my face, but rather hits my lips. Or indeed I simply finish with a hand job so he gets the mess, not me.
But is that what giving pleasure is all about? Avoiding the mess?
Messy Stuff
Surely, a situation is only sexy if you are doing it with enthusiasm? The trouble is I don’t really like his Jizz on my face. That’s not wrong of me – it is just how I feel. It’s messy and wet and I have an aversion to being messy and wet – unless out in muddy fields in my wellies, or relaxing in the bath. So if you feel the same as me, what should you do when you know that he’s about to come on your face? Well, I think life is all about a bit of give and take. Let me explain with a common personal scenario.
Setting the Scene
The scene – both naked. I am kneeling between his legs doing my best interpretation of a dirty bitch and using all my cocksucking and hand skills to give him pleasure. My tits dangling into his lap. He lays back as I look up at him staring down at me. Taking in every lick stroke and suck. Knowing it is all about his pleasure. I can tell he is about to come, and I get ready for my usual “dodge the shot” activity.
But he has got wise to my evasion techniques and is ready for me. Grabbing the back of my head he holds it in place. With his other hand, he aims his dick and orders me to continue licking the end of his knob. In just a few moments, he shoots all over my mouth and cheeks. As it begins to dribble down my chin he still holds my head in place and rubs his shaft onto my face making a truly mucky mess – smiling as I start spluttering and laughing out loud. It’s always a funny scene. And laughter is the best medicine!
Sexy for Him
For sure I would like to be one of those women who can stare up happily when he has come. Then, dip my fingers in the juice and lick the tips sexily. But I am not and the situation usually ends with me exclaiming “yuk” and laughing at the same time as grabbing the nearest tissue to clean up.
But every so often I want it to be better for him. So, rather than making a fuss at the end, I stay in position and think about why he likes it. And that turns me on. It is my face he wants to anoint, and he loves my face. Just like he loves his dirty bitch who allows him to make a mess of her silky skin.
After covering my face, he whispers, that’s what I had in mind, stares down and strokes my hair. At that moment, I know I can ask him to do practically anything and he will agree. But honestly the reason I don’t give up on this act, even though it is not my favourite way for him to climax, is getting to see the pleasure on his face when he looks at the mess on mine.
I wrote an erotic fiction story based on the article. You can read it here…
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