A few months ago I reviewed the Crescendo Vibrator and took loads of photos. Some did not appear in the review but I think are too good to just be forgotten about.
So here is one in the header shot.
Recently Miss Scarlet wrote all about masturbation through her life. It has proved to be a very popular post and well worth reading. She was pondering over whether using high powered sex toys over the years had actually made her clit less sensitive, needing more attention to achieve a strong orgasm. At the end of the article, she said she would be very interested to find out if others have had a similar experience.
It seems, for me, reduced sensitivity to manual stimulation is a natural effect of using powerful toys.
is reduced sensitivity part of the ageing process and hence toys are used to stimulate – rather than it being a natural effect from using the toys.
I can only answer from my point of view. Sex-bloggers, in general, seem to use so many sex toys. It actually quite surprised me and I am not naïve by any means.
My first boyfriend took me to Soho when I was 17 ish and we bought a vibrator. He wanted to use it on me rather than me needing to have it for my own pleasure. Indeed, once we split up I put the toy away and hardly ever bothered with it. Though I should say it was not very sophisticated piece of equipment compared to the ones we are fortunate enough to have on the market now. These days sex toys are state of the art, and may even look like something you could find in your Aunt’s bathroom as Fairy Cakes explains in Zumio got intense.
Vic also liked inserting things into my cunt. He had a kink for household objects such as candles or bottles. The glass felt extremely cool and sexy so maybe a glass dildo is something I should contemplate. Seb was so vanilla it was untrue and Al just wanted to get his cock up my arse.
My man is happy to use anything if I want it. So that very much brings us up to date. I have experimented in the last year with a few sex toys because I have reviewed them for my blog, but on the whole, I do not feel the need to include them in our activities. A whip, rope, belt, blindfold and fine cock – Now you are talking.
On reflection, even when masturbating alone, I would rather use my fingers and my imagination.
So being relatively inexperienced with sex toys may make me a little unique among sex bloggers.
So on to the sensitivity of my clit. I do think it was slightly more sensitive when I was young. Before I had children. Or should I say the orgasms were stronger before I had children. Maybe it’s an evolutionary hormonal thing? I don’t know. One thing I do know is my mind – imagination – is the most powerful stimulator I own and that very much takes me to places sexually that a toy would never achieve.