Thoughts of 2021 and 2022

I am not really sure what will be in this post. It isn’t preprepared, written in word, and then copied over. It is just me writing my thoughts.


In my last post, I mentioned how I hadn’t felt comfortable writing exactly what I wanted to, on my blog. To a certain extent, I was censoring myself. I just didn’t need the hassle of do-gooders or virtue signallers getting on my case if I stepped out of line in terminology or opinion. So I wrote less. But that does not mean I wasn’t productive. I have been mega productive in 2021.

As well as a much-needed move of home due to health reasons I have:

I did take a break from my meme 4 thoughts and have not really taken many erotic images but, the grass has certainly not been growing under my feet…


Is here! So looking forward…

My Blog

I may share more of my Medium work on here. Some is dark erotica / transgressive, but I will make sure content warnings are in place.

I intend to get back to writing more on my blog too. However, I have a feeling much of it will be reflective, such as about life things that are affecting me. I have been enjoying sex things, but at the moment – the way my mindset is regarding the world – I have no inclination to write about it. Although erotic fiction will still play a part here, I am sure.

The last year was mentally tough for many reasons, and taking sexy images didn’t figure at all. And at this moment I have no desire to return to that area of creativity. But I suppose one should, never say never. I do have a few unseen photos taken in 2019/20 that I will probably share and would always rather use a picture of myself, or someone I know, to head a post than take one from a free image site.

4 Thoughts

My meme will be back very soon. I have a new idea that I think will work for many writers, but still stays in keeping with the reason f4tfriday was set up in the first place many years ago by Kilted Wookie – to get you thinking.

Life Matters, the ad-hoc resource meme I have run from Sex Matters, is set to return for a month. TBH I think at the moment my whole blog should be called Life Matters rather than Sex Matters. Although, getting both life and sex right can contribute to your happiness and mental well-being 🙂

NB: Recently, I have put several of my more explicit blog writing/images under a password for personal reasons. If you want to view them, you can buy be a coffee, (it takes time to keep creative endeavours going and although money can’t buy time, it helps to fund caffeine!) With coffee in hand I will email you the password.

Many thanks to all of you who have kept reading my work over these past difficult years…

2021 2022

18 thoughts on “Thoughts of 2021 and 2022”

  1. Yes, you really were mega-productive despite all the difficulties. I wish you to remain the same in this year 2022.

  2. Thank you for continuing your creative journey. Sex is also part of life, but life is not only sex. So I enjoy reading. I like your desire to use more personal photos, although I do not mind others that are suitable for the topic of the article.

  3. I am really pleased that you are going to be writing more personal reflective pieces this year. You are a brilliant fiction writer but, as you know, personal reflective is my interest and what I usually look to read. For me, it doesn’t need to be about sex but about life. There is only so much you can say about sex and often people seem to feel the need to throw sparkle all over it anyway. I look forward to finding out more about your memes. I am finding that projects suit me better as they give me a focus but the prompts are always good for generating ideas and promoting some deep thinking. Well done for all you have achieved this year. You are so good at creating new things x

    1. TY Missy – I have some very personal reflective posts on Medium I will share here – that look into the horror and joy moments of last year – and also think i may write my thoughts on this and that as the year goes by – not sure what this or that is yet lol

  4. The grass certainly hasn’t been growing! You’re always so busy, and such an inspiration and cheerleader to the rest of us.

    I’m looking forward to reading more this year, especially your work! 2022 should be a good one! N xx

  5. Personal posts are always ALWAYS where my interest lies — sex might “matter” but it doesn’t matter at all to me, as a reader, if you’re writing about non-sex stuff. If it’s personal, if it’s real: THAT matters! So I hope you will be writing more life matters in the coming year.

    I will look forward to seeing what F4T and your ad-hoc meme bring.

    Happy 2022!

  6. I think his work is super productive. Like Marie, Mrs. K, Posy and other wonderful people, here in the blogosphere.

    I like the idea of the possibility of being an image header for a post of yours.

    By the way, the color of those stockings, mmm

  7. I am looking forward to the return of both 4thoughts and Life Matters, and I totally get why you have put some of your stuff behind a password. I took down so many posts, but now realize I could’ve put some of them behind a password. Too late now 😉
    On to a year of creating what we want to and not what others think we should!
    ~ Marie xox

  8. Looking forward to #lifematters and some more f4t in 2022.
    And last year was mentally tough, but tough situations never last, and tough people do!
    Here’s to feeling the grass grow beneath your feet 😉

  9. I look forward to more blogging from you! My favorite blogs are personal ones with an added flare for erotic fiction. And you certainly HAVE been productive! I wish I had more time to invest in writing and publishing.

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